Client stories of healing and growth, part 3

Meet real people who have faced seemingly insurmountable challenges and found their way to healing and transformation..

How Maya discovered the real reason she kept attracting unavailable men

Maya came in for a reading, wanting to know why, while she was ready for a committed relationship, every guy she dated was emotionally unavailable.

Looking at her energy, the answer was clear:

Maya had a very strong connection with her guides and was asking them to help her grow spiritually and personally. At the same time, whenever she entered a relationship, she became overly reliant on her partner for validation and self-worth. In doing so, she lost parts of herself, all to avoid feeling lonely.

Maya was seeking spiritual growth while trying to give her power away, two things that can’t go together. This often happens – we do two opposite things at the same time and wonder why we are stuck in place.

Because Maya was doing so much self-work, her guides ensured that she would not sabotage her spiritual growth by connecting her only to those men who would send her packing when she got too close.

Maya had two choices: give up her quest for spiritual growth and settle for someone to avoid being alone or continue growing and learn how to be okay on her own until the right person came.

Maya laughed when I told her this. She said she had already tried option one with her ex, and she didn’t want to go back there.

She chose option two, and that’s what we worked on – helping Maya increase her self-confidence, let go of the fear of being alone, and no longer need to rely on external validation.

How Melissa overcame her fear of being alone and found happiness within herself

Melissa had just broken up with a man whom she loved deeply. The reason for the breakup was that he was not willing to commit while she wanted a relationship.

“I know that I need to let go of him,” she told me. “I need to focus on myself and my own happiness. But I can’t stop thinking about him. It’s so strange, I’ve had plenty of relationships before, but none of them were so intense.“
When I looked at her energy, I saw that they had a number of past lives together – hence the strong recognition and connection.

I also saw a number of energetic blockages, most of them having to do with her second and first chakras.
We traced these blockages to childhood trauma. When Melissa was just eight years old, her father walked out on her and her mother, leaving Melissa with a deep-rooted fear of being abandoned. As a result, she found herself drawn to emotionally unavailable and/or married men.

Through our work together, Melissa was able to clear that pattern out of her energy along with several others. As she worked on herself, the pull toward her ex weakened and Melissa started to feel a sense of freedom and joy that she had never experienced before.

How Carrie overcame the pain of rejection and found a path to happiness

Carrie and Steve met at a company meeting and sparks flew instantly. Carrie felt a connection like never before, but when she mustered up the courage to express her feelings, Steve shut her down, revealing that he only saw her as a friend.

Despite her efforts, Steve continuously pushed her away, leaving Carrie heartbroken and bewildered.
Carrie did some research on relationships and came to the realization that Steve could be her Twin Flame. She tried to share this with Steve, but he remained dismissive.

Carrie was heartbroken and came to me for an intuitive reading, seeking advice and solace. She understood that she cannot make Steve fall in love, but the pain was almost unbearable and she didn’t know how to heal her broken heart.
I explained to Carrie that rejection is not a reflection of her worth, but rather a reflection of Steve’s inner struggles. I helped her understand that sometimes our twin flames are not ready to confront their emotions and that she should not try to control Steve’s spiritual growth.

Instead, Carrie needed to focus on her own healing journey and give Steve space. A few months later, she told me she could not believe what she saw in Steve, saying “he wasn’t even that good-looking.”

How Shelby broke free from the trap of perfectionism and found happiness

Shelby was constantly trying to change herself to fit the mold of what she thought a spiritual woman should be.

She spent hours reading self-help books, attending workshops, doing healing after healing, and trying to eradicate her fears and insecurities.

But the more she tried to change, the more she dug herself deeper into a hole of self-doubt and self-criticism.
Shelby came to me for a reading asking what she can heal, release, and transmute so that she would feel more confident and be more in the flow.

When I turned into her energy I heard a voice in my head saying:

“Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.”

I explained that if she wanted to feel better about herself, she had to do a 180.

Instead of trying to get rid of them, I advised Shelby to embrace her fears and insecurities.

Accept them as a part that makes her who she is today and be grateful for the lessons they continue to teach her.

We worked on that together and soon, Shelby started to notice that her self-deprecating thoughts no longer held the power over her that they once did.

She later told me that although it felt strange at first, she now realizes that the key to a happy life is not in trying to fix herself but in accepting and loving herself just as she is – warts and all.

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